An Open Letter to All Women Who Dare to Dream

Dear Sister,

I have no idea how you got here or where you come from, but I feel like I know you already.

You’re a multitasking heroine whose to do list looks something like this:

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Notice anything unusual?

You are not on the list! There’s no hot bubble bath, no trashy romance novel, no time spent doing your nails. If you’re like most multitasking women out there, you’re more likely to prioritize the kids, the neighbor, the dog, the dishes and an emergency trip to for Aunt Sarah’s hemorrhoid medication than your 15 minute power nap when you need it the most.

Something’s got to change.

You see, darling, your life is like a wagon wheel.

Imagine that each one of the spokes of this wagon wheel is like an area of your life:

Sensuality: Do you love the way you feel in your skin?

Spirit: The dreams, passions and purpose that guide your life!

Money: Do you have all you need? All you want? Do you manage it well?

Food: Weight gain? Gas? Trouble digesting? It’s all about food, Baby!

Fitness: How often do you make time to stretch, sweat, move your beautiful body?

Beauty: The way you dress and care for your body has a huge impact on your self-confidence!

Relationships: Do you feel supported by your relationships? Do they uplift and empower you?

Health: What’s going on with your hormones, thyroid, energy, etc.?

Family: Pregnancy, parenting and raising a family is a huge part of most women’s lives.

Attitude: Above all, the thoughts you think and your attitude toward life influence all of what happens in it.

It’s all connected!

You can’t feel great if your house is a mess and you’re fighting with your significant other. If you’re fighting, you won’t feel like making yourself look beautiful, or going to the gym. If you don’t go to the gym, you’ll start feeling crabby and fat, and you’ll bark at everyone, then go binge on chips, then you won’t feel good in your own skin and it just downgrades from there…

You get the picture.

You already know that you can’t have one area of your life out of balance without affecting and infecting the rest of the system.

I know it’s cliché, but you really are only as strong as your weakest link,and if you don’t take time and make time to prioritize the different areas of your health and your life, then you cannot thrive and be at your best.

Win at Work. Succeed in Life.

Change the World.

It’s time to turn up the volume on the heart songs of women around the world and do what it takes to make dreams come true. You’ve got to make every aspect of your life a healthy reflection of who you are, and here’s how you’re going to do it:

You’ve been invited to join us - women from all over the world who want to win at work, succeed in life and change the world.  We are congregating on Vfirefly.com. We have the answers.

We will master the art of living because we seek to live and want to contribute to the world in a powerful way. We invite you to share your thoughts, your insight on any aspect of life you feel you have expertise.

Vfirefly.com is designed to be a potent, powerful call to action for all women!

The site is absolutely FREE in honor and celebration of women around the world and the wisdom that is within us, but here are a few facts worth considering:

1. You only retain a small percentage of what you hear.

If you take the information you get, and if you READ IT, WRITE ABOUT IT, DISCUSS IT, DOODLE and DREAM about it, then your ability to retain the information will sky rocket. The more methods of learning you use, the more fully you’ll understand the information. Listening, reading, writing, giving examples and discussing information in groups with other people is a sure way to make the content become a more powerful and permanent part of your life.

2. The more times you go over something, the better you understand it.

Repetition is the father of learning and the mother of skill. All the greatest lecturers in the world use a method of repeating key phrases so that you will anchor them into your mind. No coach, athlete, world-class speaker, business person, actor or musician ever achieved any level of greatness without thousands of hours of time spent doing something again and again and again.

The more times you go over the information, the better you’ll be able to apply and make the principles a part of your life and the easier easy living gets.

3. The only things you cannot control are those you don't fully understand.

If there is an area of your life that feels out of control, chances are you have more to learn here. A mechanic who gets a flat tire will never be bothered by a flat tire. He knows what to do to get back on the road. Whether it’s your health, your sexuality, or your relationships with other people, if there’s something out of balance, something that feels out of control, chances are very good that there is simply something you do not understand about this area of your life.

On vfirefly, you’ll start to understand more fully the mechanics of your mind, how your relationships work, what’s affecting your energy and passion for life.

4. There is knowledge, and then there is experience.

Reading a book about how to fix a flat tire is not the same as fixing a flat tire. Signing up will no doubt inspire and empower and uplift you, but finally being able to take action on the information and make your life what you want it to be is another story.

How many self-help books are collecting dust on your shelf because you never put the information into action?

It is only when you apply information that you are able to understand it by your own experience. That’s when life starts getting a lot more fun!

Click here to get started.